"Trust" it is one of the most amazing and terrible word in English language. Sometimes it is as strong as Steele or as weak as woolen string. Why I've titled this, 'How to trust?' well cause a person close to me just asked me this question. And I was so much confused and intrigued to answer at the same time.. So here I am writing about it, there is so much to write on this one that it will take a while, but as I know human species, the one thing that we don't give out much after trust is patience. So I'll try to keep it short and sweet.
First of all trust and faith are totally different things, people normally blend them up. It's like trusting an eagle to fly is reasonable, however having a faith in it for swimming is madness. So how to trust, one of the most reason why people trust someone is mostly based on how long they've known them. Well it's not about how long you've known the person it's about how well you've known the person. Trust is a thing which should be used in a near future time not for a long future period. For eg: I've been with many trips with my friend, well for the moment let's call him Mike, I know that he is a good driver and he asked me that can he borrow my car for a ride tomorrow? Well I'll give him my car cause I TRUST him. But I can't say that he will never be in a car accident. Cause if I said that I am not trusting in his driving skills I am hoping that it will never happen. That's what most of the people do all the time mix hope with trust. If you think I am wrong, think about the following sentences and how many times have you been proven wrong regarding them..
He/she will never lie to me.
He/she will pay me back.
He/she will never cheat on me.
He/she will not tell about this to anyone.
He/she promised me that it won't happen again.
Need I say more? So back to it again how to trust? Well trust with reason, with logic, with instinct. Sometimes we trust someone and when that person fails us we lose the ability to trust again. And when someone in need want nothing but trust from you.. Well for you it's nothing but for that person it's an opportunity. What I trying to say here is that most people gets lost in their life cause they put their trust in wrong things, wrong people. Don't be one of those people and even if you are; don't lose hope. There are plenty good things and good people out there some of them deserve your trust some of them need it. But while trusting something or someone be careful cause it's the single smallest thing that can even bear the highest burden.
First of all trust and faith are totally different things, people normally blend them up. It's like trusting an eagle to fly is reasonable, however having a faith in it for swimming is madness. So how to trust, one of the most reason why people trust someone is mostly based on how long they've known them. Well it's not about how long you've known the person it's about how well you've known the person. Trust is a thing which should be used in a near future time not for a long future period. For eg: I've been with many trips with my friend, well for the moment let's call him Mike, I know that he is a good driver and he asked me that can he borrow my car for a ride tomorrow? Well I'll give him my car cause I TRUST him. But I can't say that he will never be in a car accident. Cause if I said that I am not trusting in his driving skills I am hoping that it will never happen. That's what most of the people do all the time mix hope with trust. If you think I am wrong, think about the following sentences and how many times have you been proven wrong regarding them..
He/she will never lie to me.
He/she will pay me back.
He/she will never cheat on me.
He/she will not tell about this to anyone.
He/she promised me that it won't happen again.
Need I say more? So back to it again how to trust? Well trust with reason, with logic, with instinct. Sometimes we trust someone and when that person fails us we lose the ability to trust again. And when someone in need want nothing but trust from you.. Well for you it's nothing but for that person it's an opportunity. What I trying to say here is that most people gets lost in their life cause they put their trust in wrong things, wrong people. Don't be one of those people and even if you are; don't lose hope. There are plenty good things and good people out there some of them deserve your trust some of them need it. But while trusting something or someone be careful cause it's the single smallest thing that can even bear the highest burden.
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