How to Trust

"Trust" it is one of the most amazing and terrible word in English language. Sometimes it is as strong as Steele or as weak as woolen string. Why I've titled this, 'How to trust?' well cause a person close to me just asked me this question. And I was so much confused and intrigued to answer at the same time.. So here I am writing about it, there is so much to write on this one that it will take a while, but as I know human species, the one thing that we don't give out much after trust is patience. So I'll try to keep it short and sweet.

First of all trust and faith are totally different things, people normally blend them up. It's like trusting an eagle to fly is reasonable, however having a faith in it for swimming is madness. So how to trust, one of the most reason why people trust someone is mostly based on how long they've known them. Well it's not about how long you've known the person it's about how well you've known the person. Trust is a thing which should be used in a near future time not for a long future period. For eg: I've been with many trips with my friend, well for the moment let's call him Mike, I know that he is a good driver and he asked me that can he borrow my car for a ride tomorrow? Well I'll give him my car cause I TRUST him. But I can't say that he will never be in a car accident. Cause if I said that I am not trusting in his driving skills I am hoping that it will never happen. That's what most of the people do all the time mix hope with trust. If you think I am wrong, think about the following sentences and how many times have you been proven wrong regarding them..
He/she will never lie to me.
He/she will pay me back.
He/she will never cheat on me.
He/she will not tell about this to anyone.
He/she promised me that it won't happen again.

Need I say more? So back to it again how to trust? Well trust with reason, with logic, with instinct. Sometimes we trust someone and when that person fails us we lose the ability to trust again. And when someone in need want nothing but trust from you.. Well for you it's nothing but for that person it's an opportunity. What I trying to say here is that most people gets lost in their life cause they put their trust in wrong things, wrong people. Don't be one of those people and even if you are; don't lose hope. There are plenty good things and good people out there some of them deserve your trust some of them need it. But while trusting something or someone be careful cause it's the single smallest thing that can even bear the highest burden.

Nature...

People have always wondered what the other person is thinking, what will he do, say, act, react. People tendency differ from situation to situation from time to time. If a guy is nice; situation, and people may turn him bad, same goes the other way. There are very few who stick to their original nature no matter what the situation. Those kind are hard to find and least to survive. I say this because everyone out there is struggling to further their own agenda and that's not bad nor its good.
It's just that ego, self respect, priorities, envy, pride, love are the most basic and strong feelings, that we prefer to listen to them, than to logic and compassion. When I was little, if any of my shirt or pant was torn I would throw that away. My father always use to say why don't you learn how to stitch, why do you throw out what is torn, I'd say what's the point if its torn it's of no use. He would nod in a upset tone and either take it and stitch it himself or would go away. I never understood why would he got so sad about it, it's just a piece of cloth. Now I got what he was trying to say.. Sometime our feelings gets the worst of us, cause instead of patching things up, we just leave it. Cause a human can starve, can kill a lion, can climb the highest mountain, but he is worse when it comes to emotional confrontation. Cause leaving things is so much easier than to fight for it.. We always see our selves as the one being wronged or as the right one, sometimes we get so high in our wave of emotionality that we forget what the other person did for us in the past or what is he going through to bear with us in the present. It's not always right to think with compassion, sometimes greed is good. But one must always remember that you can't always be right, cause a breed of greed it's not something that you need. People should have compassion for the betterment of world and ourselves, but also logic so not to incur a damage.

Time

There are always these "Sometimes" in your life when you have to decide between somethings. It may be smaller decisions or bigger. Sometimes there will be a guiding hand pointing towards a direction sometimes there won't be, first we think that taking decisions on our own is very hard thing to do, but taking decisions is just a trailer the hardest thing comes after taking the decision when you are only left with two choices 
1. Do It.
  Or
2. Chicken Out
trust me both are very difficult. 

There are also two effects to both the points.
1. Do It & you fail.
  Or
2. Chicken Out & you incur a great loss.

But don't worry these things will only happen when you take the decision so cheer up, but there is also another possibility that the decision you made is entirely wrong, but you won't know it until & unless you DO IT or Chicken Out.

You must be wondering WTF is he trying to say??  What  I am trying to say here is that no matter how hard you try to make happy living there always will be something bothering you inside. 
If you take the Leap & lands successfully on the other side it proves your ability, but if you fall & still you crawl back up & did it successfully it proves that you are a great human being. After all no one knows what is going to happen in future so take the risk the worse thing that can happen is that you DIE, but again who knows!!!

WHY????

why do we lie; when we know the truth? why do we boast; when we know the truth?
sometimes its b coz of situation, sometimes coz of our ego, sometimes for the person or attitude.....  but sometimes there are always sometimes....  but when sometime we speak the truth, none will believe so i think that's the reason that we lie....   maybe the reason is not satisfactory maybe wrong but it is a reason....  so who shall be blamed for this god or mankind???  after all if 'lying' is created by god then its a very good thing, not b coz it is created by god coz it teaches us a lesson that you cant hide the truth....  and for all i believe that everyone will agree on this one....  coz EXPERIENCE is return of the investment called LIE... and speaking truth is not always right it maybe wrong 'BUT' another beautiful word....  stands between... so its up to you and situation based upon you....  after all you can not control the outcome....  so dont try to speak truth try to speak less lies coz some save you and some can teach you...... coz after all in the end its YOU that matters........

A something about everything......

A something about everything......

This blog is about to express the world by my words....  Its hard to explain but not that hard to live... Life is just a like ocean, if you can swim through it you will experience million of thing but only few will be in memory... this are some of mine....