People have always wondered what the other person is thinking, what will he do, say, act, react. People tendency differ from situation to situation from time to time. If a guy is nice; situation, and people may turn him bad, same goes the other way. There are very few who stick to their original nature no matter what the situation. Those kind are hard to find and least to survive. I say this because everyone out there is struggling to further their own agenda and that's not bad nor its good.
It's just that ego, self respect, priorities, envy, pride, love are the most basic and strong feelings, that we prefer to listen to them, than to logic and compassion. When I was little, if any of my shirt or pant was torn I would throw that away. My father always use to say why don't you learn how to stitch, why do you throw out what is torn, I'd say what's the point if its torn it's of no use. He would nod in a upset tone and either take it and stitch it himself or would go away. I never understood why would he got so sad about it, it's just a piece of cloth. Now I got what he was trying to say.. Sometime our feelings gets the worst of us, cause instead of patching things up, we just leave it. Cause a human can starve, can kill a lion, can climb the highest mountain, but he is worse when it comes to emotional confrontation. Cause leaving things is so much easier than to fight for it.. We always see our selves as the one being wronged or as the right one, sometimes we get so high in our wave of emotionality that we forget what the other person did for us in the past or what is he going through to bear with us in the present. It's not always right to think with compassion, sometimes greed is good. But one must always remember that you can't always be right, cause a breed of greed it's not something that you need. People should have compassion for the betterment of world and ourselves, but also logic so not to incur a damage.
It's just that ego, self respect, priorities, envy, pride, love are the most basic and strong feelings, that we prefer to listen to them, than to logic and compassion. When I was little, if any of my shirt or pant was torn I would throw that away. My father always use to say why don't you learn how to stitch, why do you throw out what is torn, I'd say what's the point if its torn it's of no use. He would nod in a upset tone and either take it and stitch it himself or would go away. I never understood why would he got so sad about it, it's just a piece of cloth. Now I got what he was trying to say.. Sometime our feelings gets the worst of us, cause instead of patching things up, we just leave it. Cause a human can starve, can kill a lion, can climb the highest mountain, but he is worse when it comes to emotional confrontation. Cause leaving things is so much easier than to fight for it.. We always see our selves as the one being wronged or as the right one, sometimes we get so high in our wave of emotionality that we forget what the other person did for us in the past or what is he going through to bear with us in the present. It's not always right to think with compassion, sometimes greed is good. But one must always remember that you can't always be right, cause a breed of greed it's not something that you need. People should have compassion for the betterment of world and ourselves, but also logic so not to incur a damage.
